This year I have decided to try a new approach to personal changes in the new year, instead of resolutions, I will have goals. When I set a goal for myself, I usually do accomplish it. When it’s a resolution, I fail miserably. This year I have 20 personal goals set for myself.

- I was recently diagnosed with VERY high blood pressure. Until November, it was always normal. Out of nowhere, it has gone up a lot. I am now under the care of a cardiologist who has put me on medication and he is starting a round of tests to try figure this out. So, my number one goal is to get my pressure back to normal. Several of my goals have been set to help bring it down with the help of medication.
- Lose 20 pounds. Truth be told, I could stand to lose more than 20. But, small goals are best and 20 seems like a good start. When I hit that, I will add 10 more to lose.
- Continue to get 10,000 steps a day in. This has never been a problem for me. But now, more than ever, I need to keep this habit in my daily routine.
- Go to the gym 3 days per week. I need my daughter to hold me accountable with this one. She is so good about getting herself to the gym on a regular basis, I need to follow her lead.
- I have spent a lot of time reading about the causes of high blood pressure and what I can do to bring it down. Eat more fruits and vegetables. I eat a lot as it is, but it’s time to add more, especially potassium rich produce.
- I downloaded the Simple Habit app to encourage meditation on a daily basis. I keep hearing that meditation helps calm the mind. I do meditate, but not daily. Time to start trying to meditate at least 2 or 3 days per week.
- Get back into the yoga habit. Several years ago I went to yoga 3-4 days per week. I was in great shape, but I fell out of the habit as my kids got older. Since they are now adults, I probably shouldn’t continue to use them as an excuse for not going.
- Cut down on the alcohol. I really don’t drink very much. I have wine with dinner some nights and enjoy a cocktail when in a restaurant. But, until I get my blood pressure under control, I need to eliminate alcohol.
- Now on to other goals. Pay off the house. We had every intention of paying it off December 31. A couple of unexpected expenses put that on hold.
- Read 110 books in 2020. I sign up for the reading challenge every year on Goodreads. I don’t think I have ever missed my goal.
- Read 3 classic books this year. I am starting small because in all honesty, I don’t always enjoy the classics. But, my mom and I agreed to start with Call of the Wild in anticipation of the movie. It seems easy to add 2 more to 2020.
- More dates with my husband. In the past I told myself we would have a date night once a week. That proved to be difficult to achieve some weeks, making it easy to just forget about it. Date night once a month seems easier.
- We have a membership to the Milwaukee Art Museum that I plan on utilizing a lot more this year. I really do need to spend more time taking advantage of the cultural activities my city has to offer.
- Spend more time outdoors. It’s not always easy in the winter to be outside. But in the spring, summer and fall, I need to spend a lot less time indoors. I recently read an article that encourages 1000 hours per year which is about 2.5 hours per day.
- Throw away 20 items per day. We have too much stuff in this house and some of it needs to go.
- More no spend days. These are so easy to accomplish and the benefit can be seen in your checking account.
- Spend more time with my friends. This is another one that I am pretty good about following through on. I enjoy meeting friends for lunch, dinner and potlucks. In 2019 I reconnected with several old friends that I have spent time with.
- Finish a knitting project I started in November and start and finish another. I learned how to knit in 2019 and really enjoy it. I hope to find more time in the coming year to year improve this skill.
- Learn how to can! We usually have a prolific vegetable garden (2019 was a failure). My husband is the one who usually preserves the bounty. But, more job responsibilities means that I should take this one over.
- Go on 2 weekend getaways with my husband. A full blown vacation is not going to happen, but a couple weekends away should be attainable.
That’s my list. What kind of goals have you set for yourself as you start a new year and a new decade?
