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Time Sure Goes By Fast

It has been several weeks since I have written.  Life has a way of getting in the way of our best intentions and before you know it, 6 weeks have passed.  Without getting into details, several things have come up which needed my attention.  We seem to have reached a point of quiet, so I can get back to the projects I wish to try, the recipes I can’t wait to make and my desire to enjoy the short days and long nights ahead.

Tomorrow is Halloween!  It was on Halloween night 1997 that I went into the hospital to have my first baby.  To the frustration of my doctor, my husband and myself, he did not make his appearance until November 4th!  It was not actually 5 days of labor, I went in at about 11:30 pm on Halloween and he was born just after midnight on the 4th, but 3 days was long enough.  Thankfully, his sisters did not need as much time.

We all say time flies, but I truly cannot believe how fast 21 years have gone by.  I remember when my son was a couple weeks old I was sitting on the couch with him and was watching Oprah.  A guest said “cherish your babies for as long as you can because they grow up so fast.” I looked down at him, tired, still in a lot of a pain and thought “there is no way this time is going to go by fast.”  Exhaustion has way of making you not see things so clearly.  Fast forward 21 years and here I am with 3 kids, 2 who are adults in college and one who got her driver’s license 2 weeks ago.   I am less than 2 years away from being an empty nester and while that makes me sad in a lot of ways, it also makes me excited about the future.

I have a bucket list started with all the things I want to do.  It has some of the obvious things, go to Paris.  But I also have read the book “Infinite Jest” by David Foster Wallace.  That will probably prove to be more difficult than going to Paris.  Have you seen the size of that book?  I have never seen the Northern Lights or been to New Orleans, both things that I have added to my list.  So much to do and just not enough time or money to do it all.  I am going to try to start knocking the easy stuff off now, we all know that tomorrow is not promised.  Accidents happen and sometimes we lose loved ones without notice.

I would highly recommend adding a bucket list to your journal so you have an idea of things you want to do on our one trip on this planet.

 

 

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Fall……My Favorite Time Of The Year

A few weeks ago, we had several days in a row of drenching rain.  With that, came so many mosquitoes that it is impossible to spend more than a couple of minutes at a time outside.  It feels like the start of summer instead of the end.  Mind you, I am not complaining.  Hurricane Florence had a way of putting this into perspective.  My heart goes out the people who have had to endure what true drenching rain is, we are merely inconvenienced right now.

I am however, anxiously awaiting Autumn.  This truly is my favorite time of year.  I like the crisp mornings, pumpkin everything (except the pumpkin spice bologna I read is a thing), apple cider and going to the local farms for apple and pumpkin picking.   When my kids were little, I used to take them to every fall activity I could find.  It seemed our days were filled with pumpkin patches, petting zoos, apple picking and corn mazes.  Now that they are older, 2 of them moved out, these activities are no longer a guarantee.   That doesn’t mean that I have not adapted to find my new fall routine.  A recent trip to Trader Joe’s reminded me of all the things this season has to offer, and I don’t have to share the Pumpkin Ice Cream with my son!41699993_10213262099772451_3586131180572901376_n.jpg

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The Zucchini Is Winning

Anybody who has ever planted zucchini in their garden, knows the struggle is real.  As of today, we are losing a battle against the zucchini that seems to appear out of nowhere, hours after harvest.  We plant it every year because it is a reliable vegetable, we know that when all else fails, we will have zucchini for weeks to provide us with vegetables.  However, this reliable plant is not easily preserved, so for several weeks from mid summer to early autumn, I find myself in search of creative and tasty recipes that call for zucchini.  Today, I found something in a cookbook, but changed it a bit so that I could use ingredients I have on hand.  Not sure what to name it, maybe Dammit, I Have More Zucchini.

2 Medium Zucchini, sliced

Several tomatoes, chopped

Handful of Basil

Bread Crumbs (I used the ignored end pieces of bread in my pantry)

Parmesan Cheese (As much as you want to help the zucchini taste better)

salt and pepper

 

Layer the zucchini and tomatoes as you would lasagna.  Top off with bread crumbs, basil and cheese.  Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes.

I have not baked it yet, I leave for work in a bit so my husband will cook it.  We will be eating this for dinner with a side salad of tomatoes and the other summer over producer, cucumbers.  My 16-year-old will be thrilled to be eating another meal that includes all these ingredients.

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Kale Salad

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We harvested the little bit of Kale that we were able to salvage tonight.  The salad that I make with Kale is delicious!  I actually love it.

Kale Salad

1 bunch Kale

1/2 cup shredded carrots

1/2 cup Parmesan cheese

1/2 cup walnuts

1/2 cup sun-dried tomatoes

1/4 cup olive oil

2 tbsp white wine vinegar

salt and pepper to taste

 

Shred kale into strips, add all ingredients to bowl.  Mix oil and vinegar and add toss with salad.

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Frugal Living

What do you do to save money?  To live frugally? To live a life that makes you happy and feel complete?  Simple living and frugal living are buzz words these days, ideals that my husband and I were raised on.  We have tried  (and have failed often) to live our adult lives this way.  But, for the most part, we live very frugally.  We enjoy the simple things in life and try to appreciate what we have.  Here is a partial list of the things we do to live a frugal lifestyle:

  1. We rarely eat out.  Maybe twice a month and it’s for lunch.  I cannot remember the last time we ate in a restaurant, as a family, for dinner.  Maybe December and we used a gift card.
  2. We reuse and repair as much as possible.  Eric is the best DIY’er I know.  If it needs fixing, he can do it.  If he can’t, it’s not fixable.
  3. I make most of our cleaning products.  All you need is vinegar, water, baking soda, vodka and essential oils.
  4. We use the library.  I wrote a post about the library.
  5. We buy in bulk.  Not just Costco bulk, but the bulk department at the grocery store.
  6. We meal plan.  I try to plan our meals a month in advance.  That does not mean we always follow that plan, but it’s a useful guide.
  7. We rarely go to the mall or Target.  Enough said.
  8. We grow a lot of our vegetables (fully disclosure, this summer has been a dud for that so far).
  9. Eric makes his own beer and wine
  10. We line dry as much laundry as we can.  This can be difficult when the days are to humid or it’s raining.  But, we try.
  11. We use cash, for the most part.  Online purchases require a credit card.

We also do a lot of things that are not frugal:

  1. We have 3 dogs, which means a lot of dog food, vet bills and preventative meds.  They bring us joy though and that is what life is.
  2. We have 3 kids, which means a lot of food, dr bills and college tuition.  They are the reason I am here and make every single day worth living.
  3. We might eat at home, but we buy good food and never regret it.
  4. I don’t use manufacturers coupons very much.  I find that they rarely offer what I would buy and if I would buy it, I don’t need it.
  5. I have a candle obsession, which I am trying to temper by making my own at home.  But the obsession is real.
  6. We have gym memberships that we don’t use enough, but enjoy them when we can.

Life is about balance and I think that for the most part, we live a balanced life that helps us achieve our goals.  What are some of the things you do stay frugal?  I always love new ideas.

 

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Refrigerator Pickles

So far this summer, our garden has not been providing us with as much of a bounty as previous years.  I blame that epic blizzard we had on April 15th!  However, we have been getting a steady amount of cucumbers.  Too many for your typical dinner salad but not enough for a full day of canning.  Instead, I am making refrigerator pickles.

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The recipe is simple.

Refrigerator Pickles

8 cucumbers 4-4 1/2″ long,

1/4 oz fresh dill a few sprigs per jar

cup white vinegar

cup water

2 cloves garlic crushed 

tsp kosher salt

tsp sugar

  1. Wash cucumbers and cut into spears or slices. Pack into a wide-mouth canning jars. Place dill in the bottom of the jars.

  2. In a saucepan, combine the vinegar, water, garlic cloves, salt, and sugar. Bring to a boil and stir until the salt and sugar are dissolved. Remove from heat and cool to room temperature.

  3. Pour liquid over cucumbers in the jar.

  4. Close the jar and refrigerate for a minimum of 24 hours but preferably 48 hours. Enjoy!

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We Bought A Half Pig

Last weekend we picked up the half pig that we ordered from a local farmer.  The cost for 122 pounds of locally raised, organic pork came to $3.50 pound.  We have a freezer full of bacon, breakfast links, Italian sausage, ham, pork chops, pork roast, ham hocks and a Wisconsin favorite, bratwurst!  It is safe to say that our freezer is full.

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For my local friends, we bought from Melissa’s Farm.  She sells wonderful eggs, her meat is always fresh and the Thanksgiving turkeys are a wonderful, seasonal treat.  In addition to animal products, we often see local honey and maple syrup.  The farm is 4 miles from our house.  We appreciate knowing where our food came from and knowing that the animals were treated humanely.

Purchasing a pig with a daughter who is a vegan and another who is a vegetarian did come with controversy.  I respect their choices and understand their point of view.  I myself was a vegetarian for a while.  As I have gotten older, I have realized that for myself, eating meat is okay.  We make every effort to make sure that our meats come from farms that highlight the buzzwords of the food industry.  Free range, organic, hormone free, antibiotic free, humanely raised and local.  We try.  I appreciate and acknowledge that many reading this may not agree with me and instead agree with my daughters.  My only response would be that I respect everyone’s choice, please respect the choice Eric and I have made.  Okay off the preemptive soap box.

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Honey Bee Update

Yesterday Eric decided it was time to harvest some honey from the four bee hives that he keeps.  He picked up a two frame honey extractor and all of the other miscellaneous equipment needed.  It’s a bit of an investment but amortized other the years it will pay off. Eric just started beekeeping last year with only one hive and didn’t get much honey from it.  This year he upped his game and has three.  One hive is from a captured swarm in July so we don’t expect to get any honey from that one this year.  One of the other hives has been to say it mildly, crazy… it already has three honey supers on it while the other two only have one each.  Eric obviously chose to harvest the hive with the three supers.  

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Upon inspection of the frames he found that about eighteen frames had capped honey.  He gently bushed the bees off of the frames and swapped them with empty ones.  Since Eric is rather new to this, he readily admits that mistakes were made and lessons to be learned.  

First lesson don’t extract the honey where the bees can find you… He had set up his honey extractor in the garage which is on the other side of our house from the bees.  Everything appeared to  be going well but soon after starting the bees found him.  When I peeked out there to see how things were going he was completely swarmed by bees, thousands of them.  The sad thing about this is all of the bees that drown in the honey while trying to eat it.  Next time he says that he’s going to set up his equipment in the sun room and keep it well shut so that he doesn’t have to deal with the bees.  

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All said he got about four and a half gallons of honey from those eighteen frames.  Unfortunately he also has a small bucket of a mixture of wax and dead bees.  He is going to let all of the equipment sit out by the hives so that the bees can clean it all off for him and then try to recover the wax for me to make candles.  So it was a good harvest of honey and probably in the coming weeks he’ll extract honey from the other two hives.  He wants to have everything extracted before September so that he can prepare to get them ready for the winter.  That will be the topic of another blog post.

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Soba Noodle Salad

Last night I made a family favorite, Soba Noodle Salad with Peanut Dressing.

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Peanut Sauce

5 tablespoons  chunky peanut butter

5 tablespoons water

5 tablespoons soy sauce

2 tablespoons honey

2 tablespoons lime juice

1 garlic clove or 1 tsp garlic powder

sricacha sauce to taste

Blend are ingredients in a blender (I use Magic Bullet) until smooth

Salad

1 package edamame

1/2 cup shredded carrot

2 cups chopped cabbage (I used purple)

Soba noodles cooked according to directions

Toss everything into a salad bowl and mix in dressing.  Delicious!

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Native Plants

 

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A couple of years ago I was standing at my kitchen window, drinking my coffee and trying to figure out what was so different about my backyard.  Something had changed, but I wasn’t sure what.  A few minutes later my daughter walked through, looked out the window and asked “why is the grass dead?”  Aha!  Dead grass was the change in my landscape.  I immediately knew that Eric was behind this drastic change.

When I asked what was up, he told me he killed all the grass on purpose because he was going to turn the back yard into a native prairie.  I thought it was good idea, but I wished he would have at least told me of his plans.  He claimed he did, he didn’t 🙂  I definitely would have remembered any conversation that started with “I am going to kill our backyard.”

Fast forward 2 years and we have an established prairie in our backyard.   Eric belongs to a local organization that promotes the use of native plants in landscaping.  He was able to get us started with a discount on plants because of his membership.  Last year was a bit of an investment, but this year I believe he had to replace 2 plants.  Not bad. Thankfully, we do not live in a subdivision that has a rule saying we can’t do this.  We are also fortunate to have neighbors who encouraged us.  I have friends who do not have the options we do with their property due to HOA rules.

There are many benefits to turning your backyard into Native Plant Landscape.  They include the following:

  • Bees and butterflies love native plants.  As I was taking pictures today, a monarch was flying around.  The fact is, if you have native plants in your backyard, you will have butterflies.  It probably goes without saying, our bees love our yard.
  • You don’t mow a prairie.  The plants just grow, allowing native species to thrive.
  • Native plants are beautiful.  Honestly, looking at those plants while sitting on my patio allows me to be truly at one with the natural world in my own backyard.
  • Native plants do not require pesticides or herbicides, keeping the poisons away from your family and pets.
  • You will save money.  Less water and no chemicals.

I am 100% sure that I have missed several other reasons why native plants are beneficial, but you get the gist.

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Give native plants a try.  They are so much better for our planet.